Negotiating challenges and change in Christian marriage In the previous four articles, I argued that faithful love is best understood as a lifelong practice in which affection, friendship, desire and altruism are shaped by compatibility, commitment, companionship and character. I suggested that Christian marriage embodies this love as adaptive fidelity: a covenant in which two persons …
The Art of Faithful Love (Part 2)
What qualities enable love to flourish? In Part 1, I outlined C. S. Lewis’s idea of four kinds of human love, drawing on the wisdom of classical antiquity. I suggested that each one becomes genuinely life-giving as it is received as a finite good, ethically formed by mutuality and respect, and transformed by divine love …
The Art of Faithful Love (Part 1)
What forms does human love take? C. S. Lewis and The Four Loves Love. It’s almost certainly the most frequently invoked human emotion. It’s the subject of thousands of stories and songs. At the same time, it’s among the least precisely differentiated concepts in ordinary discourse. The same term is used for spouses, children, friends, communities, …
Screwtape’s advice on Comer’s Practicing the Way
My dear Wormwood, I have received your anxious report regarding the latest fad among the Enemy’s followers: this tiresome programme of so-called “apprenticeship to the Enemy,” promoted by that meddlesome priest, John Mark Comer. You are quite right to be concerned, though not, I think, for the reasons you suppose. At first glance, the scheme …
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Connecting with others who follow Jesus
According to Wheaton College professor Wayne Martindale, C. S. Lewis, the creator of the Narnia Chronicles, “had no natural fondness for church-going. He found the sermons often dull, and he disliked hymns and organ music, which he described as “one long roar.” He felt like “the most dejected and reluctant convert in all England.”[1] Yet Lewis discovered the …
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